Skyline High School baseball player Cole Mecham lost his father, Arden, two years ago. He hasn’t cut his hair since.
Here is my story on the impact of Arden’s death on Cole, and why he hasn’t cut his hair since.
Cole posted this tweet the day my story was published:
Update (7/9/15): As of July 9, the post for this story on the PR Preps Facebook page had reached 22,512 people, with 4,515 post clicks, 494 link clicks 743 total Likes (from the post and shares), 38 total shares and 37 total comments.
Here’s an excerpt:
On Saturday, Feb. 16, 2013, Cole went snowboarding with friends at Grand Targhee Resort in Alta, Wyo. Arden, a dispatcher for the oil transportation company Maxxon Energy, was days into a business trip in Watford City, N.D.
Cole, a Skyline freshman at the time, opened his phone on the ride back to Idaho Falls that afternoon. It wasn’t working. Later, he’d find out his mother, Darcy Mecham, suspended the phone.
Cole’s house was full of neighbors, friends and family when he arrived. Everyone had serious looks on their faces. Darcy Mecham and her mother, Laree Lundberg, asked Cole and his four siblings to sit on the couch. Laree told them.
Arden was dead.
Cole burst into tears, screaming, “No, no, no.”
That morning in North Dakota, Arden was driving westbound on Highway 23 in Lundberg’s Honda Accord (his car was in a shop). Reed Logan of National Oilwell Varco was driving a truck eastbound.
As Arden’s and Logan’s vehicles approached the crest of a hill, Logan’s rear tires slipped on the icy highway. The truck swerved into Arden’s lane at about 55 miles per hour, striking the front right side of the Accord, according to the crash report obtained by the Post Register. Arden’s vehicle spun into a ditch.
Arden died there at approximately 9:23 a.m. He was 37.